Do your Expectations & Desires Match?????
This entry was posted on Monday, May 26th, 2014 at 8:59 pm.
I have been thinking about why we feel bad emotions recently.
It’s very clear to me that the emotion we feel is always about the Vibrational Variance (Distance) between where we want to be (Desires) and where we are (Reality).
If we are doing exactly what we want to be doing, then we feel positive emotions.
In contrast if we are doing something we do not want to be doing, we feel negative emotions.
The further the distance – vibrational variance between our Desires and Reality, the more negative our emotions and experiences will be.
The closer the gap, or if there is a total match, the more joyful the emotions and experiences will be.
This got me thinking…….
Is our Reality really our Expectations?
What are Expectations?
Expectations are what we believe we can achieve, what we deserve and what we are capable of.
Because we really can create/manifest our realities…..
Do our Expectations play a very vital role in what exactly we manifest and hence the realities we experience?
Our expectations can be crippled with our self-criticism and self-loathing, just as much as they can be propelled with our faith and belief in a Divine Power bigger than ourselves.
Take a moment and think about your expectations in life and what your deepest desires are.
Do they match up? Or not?
Because if they do not, then you will be facing negative emotions and experiences, as you are out of balance.
Our Desires are communication from our Soul. They guide us in the direction of our Souls Purpose. Our Desire indicates to us what our unique skills and talents are and how we could best live our lives and serve others in our own unique way.
This is why the happiest and most fulfilled people are the ones who do for a living what they love to do…what they feel they are the best at doing and find much enjoyment and satisfaction in.
I used to think that my expectations did match up to my desires, but when I thought long and hard about it, I realised that my desires were indeed fantastic, but my expectations, were limiting me.
Deep down inside I didn’t really believe I was worthy enough, talented enough or able enough to manifest my desires…..even though I wanted them so much. In a nutshell, I thought that my desires were very difficult to achieve…I didn’t believe in myself fully or the powers of the Universe. These pre-conditioned thoughts, I realised I had picked up from my troubled childhood and teenage years. I didn’t have the strong faith that I needed to help me raise my expectations. I believed that I was all on my own and that I couldn’t possibly make my dreams real…..I was indeed thinking small.
This proves to be a problem – staying out of alignment would mean that it would be very difficult to achieve my desires.
What can one do to create more balance?
There are only two things you can do to bring yourself into balance;
1. Either raise your expectation to match your desire
2. Lower your desire to match your expectations.
There is no wrong or right to this – both options work in your favour as you begin to close the gap and bring in balance – your should naturally begin to experience more positive emotions.
•Thinking big would entail that your wishes and prayers can come true and that your desires are possible to achieve.
•Thinking big would mean that you have full faith in the Divine power of the Universe or/and your God to answers your prayers and bring to you all your desires.
•Thinking big would mean that your mind-set is not of being all alone but connected to the higher powers, so your desires can be fulfilled and delivered.
It’s important to keep a check on your desires, and make sure they really are your true desires and not a copy of what your have seen in the movies, or on TV, or read in magazines. They shouldn’t be copies of celebrities’ lives, but something true to your Soul.
If you can get crystal clear on your desires and empower your expectations with the force of the Divine Power all around you, – you will have done a great deal of positive energetic work today….This will hold you in good stead for brighter future….tomorrow.